Staying true to yourself and your core personality will help you to stay focused on what is important to your wedding.
For this topic, there are four basic types of personalities I want to focus on.
The 1st is the personality type that cares most about sharing this day with family and friends. This couple is fortunate in a way that they understand the true essence of what a wedding celebration was meant to be. This couple will most likely choose a casual setting, comfort food, and focus on the reception and party.
The next personality type cares mostly about being in the spotlight. It is important that the guests ooh and ahh over how amazing everything is. This wedding will focus mainly on decor.
For our 3rd personality type, it is all about the party. The music and the alcohol are top priorities. As long as everyone has fun dancing the night away, that is all that matters.
Our 4th couple will seek a more private affair. The primary goal is that they are married and can share that with only those who mean the most to them. This sometimes means the wedding will be attended by witnesses only.
For the most part, a couple with both share the perspective of what is most important, but there will be cases where they will have to compromise or blend their views.
Understanding who you are as a couple will help keep you focused on what means most to you and will prevent overspending in areas that are not as important.