Hard Core D.I.Y. Projects

It is easy to over do it when you are a do-it-yourselfer. Make sure you choose projects that will shine and not make you stress out!


Are you a Hard Core “Do-It-Yourselfer”?

As a Full-Service Wedding Planner, I get it. Doing projects for your wedding can be tons of fun and save you a lot of money. I want to make sure that you select projects and items that will be the right fit for your time schedule and budget.

There are three major things to consider when choosing which projects to tackle yourself.

1) You must be able to create it in advance and make sure it will last until the wedding.

2) It should not be something that you are super particular about, DIY and perfection often do not go hand in hand.

3) Set up or assembly should not require your presence on the wedding day, you have enough to do already.

So, how do you decide what you will and won’t do? The first thing to do is to figure out why you want to do these projects in the first place. Is it because you want to show off your skills? Is it because you want to make something personal for your guests? Is it because you want to save money? No matter what the reason, make sure that you select projects that will allow you to meet your needs and not cause additional stress.


If you want to make something to give to your guests, try making a reception favor that will keep without any special care. However, try to avoid making food items.

If you want to show off your skills, try showcasing them in just a few areas of interest like the guest book table or another specialty table. This is a great was to display your talents, without over committing yourself.

For more tips to avoid stress join us at  Wedding State University.

Happy Planning!

Wealth of Information Verse Truth

Learn the secrets to wedding planning the experts don’t want you to know.

Site #1

Top Planning Site’s Advice to Begin Your Wedding Planning:

  1. Start a wedding folder or binder.

    Begin leafing through bridal, lifestyle, fashion, gardening, design, and food magazines for inspiration.

  2. Work out your budget.

    Determine how much you have to spend, based on your families’ contributions and your own.

  3. Pick your wedding party.

    As soon as you’re engaged, people will start wondering who’s in.

  4. Start the guest list.

    Make a head count database to use throughout your planning process, with columns for contact info, RSVPs, gifts, and any other relevant information. (Want to keep costs low? It may be brutal, but the best way to do it is to reduce your guest list.)

  5. Hire a planner, if desired. A planner will have relationships with—and insights about—vendors.

  6. Reserve your date and venues.

    Decide whether to have separate locations for the ceremony and the reception, factoring in travel time between the two places.

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    Site #2

Envision your wedding and draw up a budget.

Assemble your “planning team.” Consider hiring a wedding consultant.

Pick a wedding date and time. Select several options, then check with your venues, officiant, and important guests before finalizing.

Start planning the guest list.

Look for and book ceremony sites and reception sites.

Ask friends and relatives to be in the wedding party.

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Site #3

  1. Make the announcement: Some couples just don’t feel right if anyone knows their big news before their parents and other close family members do. If possible, tell both sets of folks in person. If your parents don’t live nearby, put in a special phone call.
  2. Delve into dreams: Sit down with your fiancé and talk ideas. Think about the style you’d like, whether it’s a beach bash, a sit-down dinner in a ballroom or a ceremony on a mountaintop. No talk of money. Yet.
  3. Rough out the timing: While you don’t have to set a firm date now, it’s smart to have an idea of what month or season you want to marry in. Then you’ll know how long you have to get things organized. Because your wedding’s size determines where you’ll hold the party, how much it will cost (prices usually rise per guest) and whether travel will be involved, creating a guest list is one of the most important things to do. So make your list; your fiancé and both families should do the same. You can, and likely will, cut later, but this first number will be your base.
  4. Now talk money: It’s rare these days that the bride’s parents pick up the whole bill, so decide on your bottom line. Find out from both sets of parents if or how much they can contribute.
  5. Get organized: Buy a notebook and separate it into sections for each budget category. This way you can write down the amount you want to spend on the item and then note your expenditures. As you near your limits, you can start to figure out ways to cut costs.

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I can tell you with over 30 years experience serving the wedding industry  that if anyone follows this advice, they will definitely get themselves into trouble.

I wanted to see what help was out there for people planning their wedding. So, I chose the top 3 sites I came to when conducting an internet search for “how to plan a wedding”.  I copied exactly what they posted in order of the top 5 or 6 things they suggest to do in planning your wedding.

Normally, I would give credit to a site I was copying the information from.  In this case I have decided not too do that.  I am not going to give credit to the site, because I actually appreciate their sites for a lot of tools they provide. However, their planning advice is in a large part of the problems couple face today.

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Often wedding planning sites are built by well-intentioned people who have not experience in planning weddings and provide information that they think sounds right, but it is not the correct information.  I am confident they think they are providing good information.  Typically, they borrow information from other resources and rewrite it to make more sense to the writer.  The biggest problem is, the information does not usually come from and experienced wedding planner.

You may ask yourself, why don’t they get information from an experienced Wedding Planner? That seems like a no-brainer, right?  Well if you think about it, why would a Wedding Planner want to give someone information about how to plan a wedding on their own? People hire a wedding planner to do the planning for them and many of them think if they tell everyone how to do it, then they won’t have anyone hire them.  So, they keep it secrets safe.  They allow everyone to keep struggling through their planning and getting stressed out.

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Young mixed couple sitting at home, browsing internet on laptop computer, smiling.

With this wealth of information out there, you would think planning should be a breeze, but to the contrary, couples now more than ever have more stress and trouble than they ever have.  Wedding Planning stress arises from many reasons and all of them have reasonable solutions.  At Wedding State University we want to blow the lid off of all these secrets and by becoming a member you will learn how to plan your wedding the correct way and learn all the secrets you need to plan your ultimate stress free wedding day.

To avoid stress and learn to plan your wedding your way visit our site: http://www.weddingstateuniversity.com